Just for her...

The fairer sex has always been a topic of hot discussion among guys...and as it turns out to be..discussion is the only thing that we have (at least most of us). Its uncharted waters for the majority..May be, that is why it has never failed to elicit an overwhelming interest in the minds of all alike, no matter how 'decent' or uninterested they portray themselves to be...Whatever may the discussions be about..all roads finally tend to lead there...:)..The hunt for the better half has always provided good stories haunting the protagonists for ages...

There are many schools of thought as far as the other half is concerned. Some guys just see a girl on Orkut or messenger and the next thing that you hear is the customary "Babezz, what planz for the weekend??"..and by then they would have been 'close friends', which has sort of become a cliche these days..some talent these guys have!!! There are others who are at the other extremes, (who form the majority)... the not-so-fortunate hence not-so-interested (or the other way around ???) with an 'i don't give a shit attitude' but their subconscious minds are probably waiting for that right female to understand the good hearts (??) they have and eventually fall for them (yea right!!..a chain of highly improbable events!!). The list would be incomplete with those in between, the small-time flirts, who will no doubt , perform when the opportunity comes, but it seldom does. Well...it is quite obvious that the first category continues to invite the wrath and envy of the others and it is often seen in all the get-togethers,when all the goals are almost always directed at those who are capable of taming the other half. Well...that is the working of the jealous mind..:)

More often than not, the only thing that the intoxicated mind speaks of is the fairer sex..there are some people who blabber only about them..when the mind is 'free and flowing'..The others just sit back and watch the performance..you can call that sadism..but looking back..you can feel that it's just pure unadulterated fun. The guys who don't talk about these things and maintain a fraudulent veil of innocence are the most dangerous, as the saying goes in malayalam "Mindappoocha kalamudakkum*", who disappear one fine morning in the pretext of visiting a distant cousin (???) of theirs and are finally exposed (after all..it's a small world you see !!!)...Also there are some who have a compleete list of the n number of females they have come across, but haven't even talked to one..and have no intention of doing so..Yet others , who do not admit the obvious just for the sake of it..and finally the Cupid-incarnates (as in the movie 'Hitch') who just seem to have the magic to make things click !!

Removing the chaff from the grain, you see the dedicated and committed of guys...who spent long nights chatting with the to-bes. Those guys are respected in these quarters.. although jealousy prevails..that's some sort of a fait accompli..and they are left unto their own...

Well...sometimes i often wonder...why all this.?..may be it's an attempt at fun, by the poor souls doomed to spend their day and night in corporate jungles...or may be just a time pass...but still that is just the way it is...